Everyone is different

First we the traders have to consider of the broker are popular and a regulated one, because non regulated broker is just like investor into hyips and that way our funds are not safe , perhaps one thing I do see recently is that most newbie choose any broker that give a start a bonus , devoid of considering if they are regulated or not.

Everyone is different. You can't compare yourself with others. May be your understanding level is higher than others or vice versa. Then comes how much time you are giving to learn the art of trading. I would suggest to study more about trading psychology and risk management. At the end people stuck with this problem. Read the book Trading in the Zone by Mark Douglas.